Jason's Dream
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Thought this would be a nice thread to start. Since I am learning everything the hard way. I thought people might like to know things that would have been nice to have known, were I told to begin with, I might have made different decisions, or done things differently.
1.) REP Payee for Social Security and making a REP Payee account for Direct Deposit.
~ In order for SS to talk to you about your PALS Disability, SSi, Medicare.. they require you to be the REP Payee. They do not recognize a PoA, as that is a State document, and they are a Federal Institution.
~ In becoming a REP Payee, they then will require you to be have a bank account noted as a REP Payee Account.
~ A REP Payee Account, is not a joint account. It is an account specifically for "The Benefit of the PALS". It is thier account, and you are noted as the one making the decisions, but it is not your account.
~ When a PALS dies, and you take a death certificate to the bank to remove thier name off of that account. Know that they will place a "Death Hold" of 45 days on that account. Once that period of time is up, they will release those funds to thier estate or to next of kin and then that account will close because the "Beneficiary" is deceased. That being said, if you open up a new account, and have them transfer the funds, then hand them the death certificate, then in essense the account will be closed and you will not have to wait to have those funds to take care of your family.
2.) Survivor Benefits and "Death Payment".
~ Not everyone receives Survivors Benefits and Death Payment. Look at the Social Security website for more explanation on that.
~ "Death Payment" is a one time thing of $255.00. That is hard to accept, considering the average cost of a funeral is $8,000-$10,000 (not including head stone which roughly range between $5,000 - $7,000).
~ The max that you can get for you and your children is: $1348.00 per month. $674.00 for you and $674.00 will be split between however many children you have.
~ With Survivor's Benefits, you will need your own personal account, and then a REP Payee account for per each child, as you will be a REP Payee to each minor child.
~ After a year, you will be audited.
~ If you think you will earn more then $14,000ish for the year, you need to notify SS before you go over that certain amount, so they can split the $674.00 you would normally get between your children, or else they will subtract that amount from your check. This way, you will not lose any of that money.
~ As the remaining spouse you will be paid Survivor's benefits up until your child(s) will turn 16.
~ Your child will be paid Survivor's benefits until the age of 18, or some exceptions tied in with schooling.
3.) Bank Accounts
~ If you have a joint bank account, then when a spouse dies, it automatically goes to the remaining spouse with no holds put on the account.
~ If you close a bank account, if you have anything that was "Direct Withdrawl", they can still withdrawl from that closed account and screw up your account. So call and stop or change that to the different account before closing that bank account.
4.) Hospice
~ Most will provide 13 months grief counseling to the immediate family after your PALs has passed.
~ Most nurses and nurse aids can not stay for long periods of time when your PALs is in the process of passing.
~ They will empty all meds of the house right after your PALs passes.
5.) Losing a Spouse
~ I'd give anything to be that 24/7 caregiver again.
~ You lose your identity, and your sense of purpose.
1.) REP Payee for Social Security and making a REP Payee account for Direct Deposit.
~ In order for SS to talk to you about your PALS Disability, SSi, Medicare.. they require you to be the REP Payee. They do not recognize a PoA, as that is a State document, and they are a Federal Institution.
~ In becoming a REP Payee, they then will require you to be have a bank account noted as a REP Payee Account.
~ A REP Payee Account, is not a joint account. It is an account specifically for "The Benefit of the PALS". It is thier account, and you are noted as the one making the decisions, but it is not your account.
~ When a PALS dies, and you take a death certificate to the bank to remove thier name off of that account. Know that they will place a "Death Hold" of 45 days on that account. Once that period of time is up, they will release those funds to thier estate or to next of kin and then that account will close because the "Beneficiary" is deceased. That being said, if you open up a new account, and have them transfer the funds, then hand them the death certificate, then in essense the account will be closed and you will not have to wait to have those funds to take care of your family.
2.) Survivor Benefits and "Death Payment".
~ Not everyone receives Survivors Benefits and Death Payment. Look at the Social Security website for more explanation on that.
~ "Death Payment" is a one time thing of $255.00. That is hard to accept, considering the average cost of a funeral is $8,000-$10,000 (not including head stone which roughly range between $5,000 - $7,000).
~ The max that you can get for you and your children is: $1348.00 per month. $674.00 for you and $674.00 will be split between however many children you have.
~ With Survivor's Benefits, you will need your own personal account, and then a REP Payee account for per each child, as you will be a REP Payee to each minor child.
~ After a year, you will be audited.
~ If you think you will earn more then $14,000ish for the year, you need to notify SS before you go over that certain amount, so they can split the $674.00 you would normally get between your children, or else they will subtract that amount from your check. This way, you will not lose any of that money.
~ As the remaining spouse you will be paid Survivor's benefits up until your child(s) will turn 16.
~ Your child will be paid Survivor's benefits until the age of 18, or some exceptions tied in with schooling.
3.) Bank Accounts
~ If you have a joint bank account, then when a spouse dies, it automatically goes to the remaining spouse with no holds put on the account.
~ If you close a bank account, if you have anything that was "Direct Withdrawl", they can still withdrawl from that closed account and screw up your account. So call and stop or change that to the different account before closing that bank account.
4.) Hospice
~ Most will provide 13 months grief counseling to the immediate family after your PALs has passed.
~ Most nurses and nurse aids can not stay for long periods of time when your PALs is in the process of passing.
~ They will empty all meds of the house right after your PALs passes.
5.) Losing a Spouse
~ I'd give anything to be that 24/7 caregiver again.
~ You lose your identity, and your sense of purpose.