So, I've been getting organized, making sure I have a list of his meds/dosages, making sure I have the pertinent couple of docs he sees listed, making sure he doesn't need anything else before I or the doc calls hospice, checking into hospices in our area, etc...
BAM! SIL is in town and she has helped me a couple of days. He wants to go home with her. LOL I don't blame him! I want to go home with her!
I was very upset at first because he really is in bad shape, but this will most likely be the last time he will be able to go. He really shouldn't go now, but she is willing to take it on, so I will just let things be. :-( She told me she looked at it as her gift to him and she was able to do it.
I think he just wants to travel one last time before he thinks he has been "relegated" to hospice. He just can't get it through his head that he can go off hospice and hospice doesn't mean he will be gone in 3-6 months!
SIL has come a long way from half eaten birthday cake to respite care! :shock:
BAM! SIL is in town and she has helped me a couple of days. He wants to go home with her. LOL I don't blame him! I want to go home with her!
I was very upset at first because he really is in bad shape, but this will most likely be the last time he will be able to go. He really shouldn't go now, but she is willing to take it on, so I will just let things be. :-( She told me she looked at it as her gift to him and she was able to do it.
I think he just wants to travel one last time before he thinks he has been "relegated" to hospice. He just can't get it through his head that he can go off hospice and hospice doesn't mean he will be gone in 3-6 months!
SIL has come a long way from half eaten birthday cake to respite care! :shock: