Jason's Dream
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Just another rant...
Today I was reminded again how this disease alienates us from other people in our lives... from doing the ordinary, mundane, and fun things in life... a simple post on a social network listed every girl friend I know and how they had a night out and what fun they had... never was even asked... didn't they know how nice it would have been to have a night out for a change and not talk about the albatross that everyone seems to think that is the only thing they can talk to me about?... I'm no longer a human being... no longer have feelings... I am only Jason's wife.. the wife with the weight of the world on my shoulders.. just a care giver... I don't have any identity of my own and of course... since I take care and love someone near death.. I certainly have no use of wanting to have fun and get away and talk about non-sensical stuff... ugh!
I know its stupid... but the other night the pastor at my parent's church started a sermon talking about me having the weight of the world on my shoulders, what all I am dealing with... and how I am soo young to be dealing with soo much... thanks pastor.. remind everyone why they don't want the "debbie downer" around.
I can't reply to anyone because if I try to be there for someone else, I get replies, like "why am I even complaining, when you are dealing with soo much more, etc?"...
Why does it all lead back to THIS?
I hate this horrible disease!
/: rant over
~ Becca
Today I was reminded again how this disease alienates us from other people in our lives... from doing the ordinary, mundane, and fun things in life... a simple post on a social network listed every girl friend I know and how they had a night out and what fun they had... never was even asked... didn't they know how nice it would have been to have a night out for a change and not talk about the albatross that everyone seems to think that is the only thing they can talk to me about?... I'm no longer a human being... no longer have feelings... I am only Jason's wife.. the wife with the weight of the world on my shoulders.. just a care giver... I don't have any identity of my own and of course... since I take care and love someone near death.. I certainly have no use of wanting to have fun and get away and talk about non-sensical stuff... ugh!
I know its stupid... but the other night the pastor at my parent's church started a sermon talking about me having the weight of the world on my shoulders, what all I am dealing with... and how I am soo young to be dealing with soo much... thanks pastor.. remind everyone why they don't want the "debbie downer" around.
I can't reply to anyone because if I try to be there for someone else, I get replies, like "why am I even complaining, when you are dealing with soo much more, etc?"...
Why does it all lead back to THIS?
I hate this horrible disease!
/: rant over
~ Becca