Pandora
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Apr 30, 2011
- Messages
- 130
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 01/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- Texas
- City
- Crowley
I know that I will probley be jumped on for saying this, But I need to vent about a few things.
1. Is there really a "Caregiver Support fourm?" i.e. Caregivers only?
2. I sometimes feel I can't speak about the issues going on in my home due to not wanting to bring about PALS fears.
3. "Get well cards" really piss me off.
4. People who offer to help, then sit on my couch and suck up my AC, and not lift a finger to do anything to help, better off with out your distraction.
5. Socical Security won't speak to me about my husband and they can not understand him on the phone, so I have to have him deemed incompetent? B.S. And PoA is not something they take.
6. Family members who are too stupid to live, and too selfish to see what really is being done, everyday, evey moment.. and not by them.
7. When people say, "Oh you don't work, must be nice." Really... not work? I'm not sure what else you would call it, maybe slavery? How does that grab ya?
8. The friends that said, anything you need, give me a call. I call, and they are too busy or not at home, or really just advoiding my call.
Just a few things that have been on my mind....
1. Is there really a "Caregiver Support fourm?" i.e. Caregivers only?
2. I sometimes feel I can't speak about the issues going on in my home due to not wanting to bring about PALS fears.
3. "Get well cards" really piss me off.
4. People who offer to help, then sit on my couch and suck up my AC, and not lift a finger to do anything to help, better off with out your distraction.
5. Socical Security won't speak to me about my husband and they can not understand him on the phone, so I have to have him deemed incompetent? B.S. And PoA is not something they take.
6. Family members who are too stupid to live, and too selfish to see what really is being done, everyday, evey moment.. and not by them.
7. When people say, "Oh you don't work, must be nice." Really... not work? I'm not sure what else you would call it, maybe slavery? How does that grab ya?
8. The friends that said, anything you need, give me a call. I call, and they are too busy or not at home, or really just advoiding my call.
Just a few things that have been on my mind....