Jason's Dream
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Just a small vent/rant.
So Jason's grandfather (his "father-figure") finally visits today for the first time in MONTHS. Invites Jason's mom to MY house. Mom seems to think he invited her for her to hold his hand as he visited with his grandson because this makes him uncomfortable and its too hard for him. Really? This is the grandson you raised as your son, who needs one on one MALE BONDING time with, and here he barely stays 1 HOUR, and has someone here to hold his hand? Thing I've been noticing, is, if more then 1 person visits at a time, because Jason's speech is soo slow and hard to figure out, and so it takes TIME to understand him, that the TWO + people visiting end up and talk with each other instead of Jason, and here Jason is setting in the same room feeling like "Hey guys, I'm over here.. talk to me" type of thing.
Honestly it is soo frustrating that these people can't put on thier big people panties and be there for Jason. Freaking grow a pair. It ain't about you guys, its about a young man facing something soo scary, and something y'all have never faced. Get over yourself and think of HIM for once in y'alls life!
Okay, rant over.
So Jason's grandfather (his "father-figure") finally visits today for the first time in MONTHS. Invites Jason's mom to MY house. Mom seems to think he invited her for her to hold his hand as he visited with his grandson because this makes him uncomfortable and its too hard for him. Really? This is the grandson you raised as your son, who needs one on one MALE BONDING time with, and here he barely stays 1 HOUR, and has someone here to hold his hand? Thing I've been noticing, is, if more then 1 person visits at a time, because Jason's speech is soo slow and hard to figure out, and so it takes TIME to understand him, that the TWO + people visiting end up and talk with each other instead of Jason, and here Jason is setting in the same room feeling like "Hey guys, I'm over here.. talk to me" type of thing.
Honestly it is soo frustrating that these people can't put on thier big people panties and be there for Jason. Freaking grow a pair. It ain't about you guys, its about a young man facing something soo scary, and something y'all have never faced. Get over yourself and think of HIM for once in y'alls life!
Okay, rant over.