evansmom99
Member
- Joined
- Jun 15, 2011
- Messages
- 26
- Reason
- PALS
- Diagnosis
- 06/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- CO
- City
- Denver
These last few months have been tough. My loving husband has become a angry hatelful man. He used to be my best friend and we could talk about anything. Now anything I say or do is wrong and met with anger. He has announced he does not have ALS or anything like that, he is not going to die, and it is me and Dr's pushing that topic.
I want to be able to talk about his desires and wishes,, but he says no. Will not do tube until he can swallow no more but knows that is not going to happen. Will not discuss end of life and confort issues not to mention the legal items. Says I want to take his money. Says I am brainwashing our son about his going to pass.
I love him but but do not love the man he has become. There has been some concern that he does have brain affliction being from ALS or Dementia.
Dealing with ALS is hard enough but the abusive hate is more than I can bear. I want to be there for him due to remembering he is the man I fell in love with and had a child with.
what can I do, I want to make sure there are no probems should he need a feeling tube and later confort issues. I respect his desire not to be kept alive on a vent, and saying he does not want to starve to death.
I feel so helpss... had I been a better more healthy wife maybe things would of been different. Maybe I need to try harder, I just don't know...
Thanks for letting me ramble on.
I want to be able to talk about his desires and wishes,, but he says no. Will not do tube until he can swallow no more but knows that is not going to happen. Will not discuss end of life and confort issues not to mention the legal items. Says I want to take his money. Says I am brainwashing our son about his going to pass.
I love him but but do not love the man he has become. There has been some concern that he does have brain affliction being from ALS or Dementia.
Dealing with ALS is hard enough but the abusive hate is more than I can bear. I want to be there for him due to remembering he is the man I fell in love with and had a child with.
what can I do, I want to make sure there are no probems should he need a feeling tube and later confort issues. I respect his desire not to be kept alive on a vent, and saying he does not want to starve to death.
I feel so helpss... had I been a better more healthy wife maybe things would of been different. Maybe I need to try harder, I just don't know...
Thanks for letting me ramble on.