Pandora
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Apr 30, 2011
- Messages
- 130
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 01/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- Texas
- City
- Crowley
Bran got out of the hospital, in awful pain yet again. Last night was horrid. I get him into bed and he was uncomfy all the time. Every 15 min he needed to be repositioned, or more covers or less covers, or turned over. No sleep, no rest. after 3 hours of this i just gave up. He pulled out his stint, and the dribbles begain. I am by myself at this point, and I can't move him alone. I can't do a hospital bed sheet change, he wont allow the movements it takes. I dont want to leave him in a wet bed, but he wont let me do it. I tried to make him, but he is 300 lbs.. if he dosent want to move.. he wont. I have put chucks all around him and did the things he would let me do, he wants to go to his chair, but I cant do it alone. I feel helpless, hopeless. Found out he has two discs in his back that are messed up, and that may be causing pain, and some mobilty issues. But they released him without addressing this. I'm at a loss for words, i sit here and type while he groans, and growls, and moans and there is nothing I can do. Is this the start of the end? I am at a loss. I cant continue to move him around every 10 min, I will fall apart and then where will we be? I just had to get it out.