mare
Senior member
- Joined
- Jun 5, 2008
- Messages
- 771
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Country
- US
- State
- PA
- City
- Lafayette Hill
It's been 3 years since I joined this forum- in some ways it seems like yesterday, in others it seems like an eternity. I didn't post for almost a year- too busy reading, learning, gathering info.
Back then, I wondered how long I'd be here- the initial focus on "the terminal" part of the disease. I learned that is a human reaction- that fear does that to you.
But I also learned that you do have control over that fear, that focus. You can choose to
focus on what you have, and not what you don't have. You can choose to find something meaningful or fun or positive everyday. It isn't always easy; somedays it is really hard, and at the end of the day, sometimes what you are most grateful for is that the day is done!
I always wondered why CALS didn't post more- now I know! Besides having more to do, I feel as though others are dealing with so much more than I am at this time.
My heart goes out to all of you; we may each have a different set of circumstances, but the general picture is the same. That is our common bond- the "I get it factor".
So if I am not here as often as before, just know that I may be out of sight but all of you are not out of mind. I remember everyone in prayer everyday, and wish for peace for all of us. I love you all!
Back then, I wondered how long I'd be here- the initial focus on "the terminal" part of the disease. I learned that is a human reaction- that fear does that to you.
But I also learned that you do have control over that fear, that focus. You can choose to
focus on what you have, and not what you don't have. You can choose to find something meaningful or fun or positive everyday. It isn't always easy; somedays it is really hard, and at the end of the day, sometimes what you are most grateful for is that the day is done!
I always wondered why CALS didn't post more- now I know! Besides having more to do, I feel as though others are dealing with so much more than I am at this time.
My heart goes out to all of you; we may each have a different set of circumstances, but the general picture is the same. That is our common bond- the "I get it factor".
So if I am not here as often as before, just know that I may be out of sight but all of you are not out of mind. I remember everyone in prayer everyday, and wish for peace for all of us. I love you all!