Sophia'sOpa
New member
- Joined
- May 25, 2011
- Messages
- 1
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 03/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- NY
- City
- Mount Vernon
Hello Everyone,
I am starting this post with alot of emotion and confusion. My father was recently diagnosed with ALS and is currently in a subacute facility waiting to come home. This was a sudden diagnosis. Dad had started to not feel well last Summer....voice changed, appetite changed, becoming lethargic, moody and just not the man I knew. We went to doctor after doctor and all the tests were coming back negative. On March 1st, he woke up in respirtory failure, the same day he was to see the Pulmonologist and a week before the Neurologist. Within a day, dad was intabated and on a respirator. It is now 2 months later, he is on a vent/peg and has has been diagnosed, spent a month in a rehab facility and now has moved to a subacute. I waiting on the medicaid to go through to bring him home. The ALS center has been great...got a tilt maual and power wheelchair for him from the loaner closet. I intend to be dad's caregiver but its complicated...mom is already in a wheelchair and needs help too. My qurestion to all of you is can I do this? I am so worried....I work full time, have a 2 yr old and a husband. I want to do it all....I am jsut beginnig to understand the situation that I am in. Its my dad...I love him more than life itself and would do anything for him. Its the first time he is asking for my help. I would love some feedback....I am lost right now...don't know where to start or what to do..... sorry if it sounds like i am venting...but no one seems to understand around me.....just very lost
I am starting this post with alot of emotion and confusion. My father was recently diagnosed with ALS and is currently in a subacute facility waiting to come home. This was a sudden diagnosis. Dad had started to not feel well last Summer....voice changed, appetite changed, becoming lethargic, moody and just not the man I knew. We went to doctor after doctor and all the tests were coming back negative. On March 1st, he woke up in respirtory failure, the same day he was to see the Pulmonologist and a week before the Neurologist. Within a day, dad was intabated and on a respirator. It is now 2 months later, he is on a vent/peg and has has been diagnosed, spent a month in a rehab facility and now has moved to a subacute. I waiting on the medicaid to go through to bring him home. The ALS center has been great...got a tilt maual and power wheelchair for him from the loaner closet. I intend to be dad's caregiver but its complicated...mom is already in a wheelchair and needs help too. My qurestion to all of you is can I do this? I am so worried....I work full time, have a 2 yr old and a husband. I want to do it all....I am jsut beginnig to understand the situation that I am in. Its my dad...I love him more than life itself and would do anything for him. Its the first time he is asking for my help. I would love some feedback....I am lost right now...don't know where to start or what to do..... sorry if it sounds like i am venting...but no one seems to understand around me.....just very lost