We did a POA for Jason and one for myself. We also both drew up Living Wills and Last Wills for each of us. Stating who would raise our children, should I die at some point as well. In the even that you can't do the duties for the medical or durable POA, who does your husband want to do his POA? Same for yours? Also, if people want to send you funding to help out, you might ask about setting up a fund to help out and say who is the trustee of that account, and who are the beneficiaries, etc. Hope this helps. Good luck.