CoachMeg
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Mar 4, 2011
- Messages
- 209
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 02/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- CA
- City
- Roseville
Yesterday marked another step in this whole process for my husband. He will be working from home from now on. He also notified his boss and team members that he will be retiring soon. He had a really rough, emotional night.
I felt in a bind as I had pushed for him to start working from home and looking at disability retirement. I know in my heart that it is right for him so that he can have more energy for the kids and I. I feel somewhat guilty that he is giving up one more piece of his independence. I cannot imagine the struggle to want to provide for your family, but knowing you can't actively work. As a side note, there were lots of stairs at his building and his leg weakness continues to get worse. Not to mention the 30 minute drive to and from work.
I feel like just another poster who is here whining about how much ALS SUCKS! Well, it does and I am. I am also scared to death. Not knowing what to expect or when. I want to provide him with as much mobility and activity as I can. We have always said "I love you" to each other and the kids, a lot. I just wish that was enough to make it all better.
Sorry for the long, weary post. I have never been much of a writer, but definitely find it cathartic to post here.
Thank you for providing an avenue of communication to discuss and describe what is happening as a caregiver and as a PALS.
Love and light
Meg
I felt in a bind as I had pushed for him to start working from home and looking at disability retirement. I know in my heart that it is right for him so that he can have more energy for the kids and I. I feel somewhat guilty that he is giving up one more piece of his independence. I cannot imagine the struggle to want to provide for your family, but knowing you can't actively work. As a side note, there were lots of stairs at his building and his leg weakness continues to get worse. Not to mention the 30 minute drive to and from work.
I feel like just another poster who is here whining about how much ALS SUCKS! Well, it does and I am. I am also scared to death. Not knowing what to expect or when. I want to provide him with as much mobility and activity as I can. We have always said "I love you" to each other and the kids, a lot. I just wish that was enough to make it all better.
Sorry for the long, weary post. I have never been much of a writer, but definitely find it cathartic to post here.
Thank you for providing an avenue of communication to discuss and describe what is happening as a caregiver and as a PALS.
Love and light
Meg