Jason's Dream
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Okay, we have many people wanting to help.
Have you had people help you? How have you gotten that help? Have you stated, I need (and this list items) or have you stated what you want more of (ie: more time to yourself, more couple time, more time with your kids, etc), and asked for help in other areas? Did you make a list? What was your list like?
I really need help on this, as I feel like a work mule most days and want to spend more time.. more QUALITY time with my husband and children then I do now.
As it is, I seem to be ALWAYS doing laundry, dishes are never caught up, I can't keep up with the housework, .. my time is limited when taking care of my 3 year old, 4 month old and my husband. So, making meals, takes time away from them, sometimes I need someone to take care of the kids to spend time with my PALS.
Also, it seems the paperwork and errands I hate the most as they take me away from them all. How do you delegate that stuff when some of it is legal work to where you have to be the one doing it (IE: SSN, Disability, and SSI).?
Also, side note, did any of you have problems with SSI, and Disability? Did you ever appeal thier decisions or hire a laywer? TIA.
~ Becca
Have you had people help you? How have you gotten that help? Have you stated, I need (and this list items) or have you stated what you want more of (ie: more time to yourself, more couple time, more time with your kids, etc), and asked for help in other areas? Did you make a list? What was your list like?
I really need help on this, as I feel like a work mule most days and want to spend more time.. more QUALITY time with my husband and children then I do now.
As it is, I seem to be ALWAYS doing laundry, dishes are never caught up, I can't keep up with the housework, .. my time is limited when taking care of my 3 year old, 4 month old and my husband. So, making meals, takes time away from them, sometimes I need someone to take care of the kids to spend time with my PALS.
Also, it seems the paperwork and errands I hate the most as they take me away from them all. How do you delegate that stuff when some of it is legal work to where you have to be the one doing it (IE: SSN, Disability, and SSI).?
Also, side note, did any of you have problems with SSI, and Disability? Did you ever appeal thier decisions or hire a laywer? TIA.
~ Becca