Miss
Very helpful member
- Joined
- Apr 11, 2010
- Messages
- 1,782
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 04/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- In the Land of Cotton
- City
- Way Down South
We are moving to a different level, and I don't know what I'm doing. Is there no place to get some training? How do I get a toileting sling under my 250 lb. husband by myself? He can't be rolled over, and he can't keep it on all of the time because it causes pressure sores. How do I get any housework done when he needs something every five minutes. He can't move his arms, and it hurts when his hands curl. He won't wear the brace because it hurts. He can still eat without totally choking, so he won't use the peg. It takes over an hour to feed him 1/4 of what he used to eat.
I feel like I am drowning. I have no time for my 16 year old son, and I know that is a dangerous thing. How do all of you handle this? I've been a 24/7 caregiver for over 10 months now. This is physically and mentally killing me. Why do the doctor's act like this doesn't affect the PALS mentally. I barely recognize the man living in my husband's body.
I feel like I am drowning. I have no time for my 16 year old son, and I know that is a dangerous thing. How do all of you handle this? I've been a 24/7 caregiver for over 10 months now. This is physically and mentally killing me. Why do the doctor's act like this doesn't affect the PALS mentally. I barely recognize the man living in my husband's body.