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Julie B

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I'm new to the forum, trying to prepare myself, as we are expecting a diagnosis today, for my mom. She'll be 75 in April.

She started showing bulbar symptoms about seven months ago, with the thickening of her speech. The first neurologist told her it was just stress and she should stop worrying. The second was sure it was a stroke. By October, she was having trouble swallowing and was losing weight, and her speech is deteriorating quickly. She finally met with a specialist at Loyola University Hospital, near Chicago, who assured her it was not a stroke and ordered a series of tests. She meets with him again this morning for the results.

Right now, the worst part is that she has no idea this is something serious. She thinks this doctor is going to tell her he knows how to fix what's wrong. And I know different.

I've been researching since she started having trouble speaking and complaining of a dry mouth, and even sent the ALS site to my father, so he would know it could be something serious. He ignored it. But when the doctor said it wasn't a stroke, I sent him the site again.

While she was having the tests one of the doctors said something about ALS. I don't know if it was directly to my father or something he overheard, but he's expecting the same diagnosis now and dreading the appointment with the doctor.

I live so far away from them and feel so helpless to offer comfort. :cry: Reading through your posts has been both informative and frightening.
 
Julie, my heart goes out to you and your parents. I hope she doesn't have ALS. If she does, it would be good for her to join the forum if she's up to it. Some folks really don't want to be that intensely involved, and need others to feed them information. That might be your role. Your father may need your help figuring out ways to help.
Lifting you up in prayer,
Ann
 
Hood luck to you. I too hope that you hear something besides ALS. Just know that if that is what you hear, there is life after diagnosis. The support you will be able to provide for your parents will be extremely valuable to them. My prayers go out to you and your family.
 
I wish you the best today.
 
You are in many people's thoughts and prayers today. I hope you didn't get an ALS diagnosis. If you did, we are here.
 
Well, the diagnosis was as expected.
 
I am so sorry for the diagnosis. We never want to hear those words, any of us, but know we are here to help:)
 
Julie, I'm so sorry it is ALS. We're here for you. No doubt it's a very emotional time.
Ann
 
We have the same situation TODAY, I am so very sorry Julie, like you I dread the thought of what MIGHT lay ahead, like your mum my husband is having the same symptoms ( bulbar) and we will know today difintively if he has bulbar als after a specialist appointment today. Just enjoy your mumma as much as you can, I understand the frustration of distance as all our 4 children are scattered across the usa & close family is scattered across world so we have little family support, you will get support here at this forum the people here are just wonderful <<<<<<<<<<hugs >>>>>>>> to you Julie
 
Such a sad and scary situation, but I'm glad three of my siblings live nearby to help my parents.

Pudge44, I noticed you use the word mum, may I ask where you're from? I have cousins in Ireland who say mum. I will pray for peace for you and your husband as you wait for the diagnosis.

Julie
 
Julie, so sorry about your mom, I was diagnosed with bulbar almost exactly three years ago so if there are any questions that you have about it just ask and I (or someone else) will try to answer.
 
Julie,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. You must be in an absolute fog right now. It makes my heart sad every time I know that one more family has to deal with ALS.
 
Julie, I am so sorry for your mother and family. We are all here to answer any questions and support you.
 
Dear Julie,
I am sorry you got the diagnosed we all dread.I know you will find, caring
forum members to support and educate you on this journey.
Praying for your family,Pat
 
Frickin sucks big time. Im very sorry to hear of this and even more sorry that you and your family will be going through this.
As others have said, we will be here to help however we can throughout your journey.
Dont give up hope. and something my PALS likes to tell others- Dont give up the fight.
 
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