CAHPAH
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- Mar 1, 2010
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Yesterday Serena could not finish her shower. She had to stop and spend time on her bipap. This was not a moment like we have had in the past where she simply needed it for comfort. This time she needed it for survival. In the short time it took me to get her hooked back up she was amost in a panic. She honestly could not breath and she said her head hurt very bad. Once she was hooked and was getting air, I saw the panic leave her eyes only to be replace with sorrow. We'd reached other threshold, yet another reminder of the eventual out come. I hate seeing these things in the eyes of my love. I hate ALS.
George Elliot wrote, "That quiet mutual gaze of a trusting husband and wife is like the first moment of rest or refuge from a great weariness or a great danger--not to be interfered with by speech or action which would distract the sensations from the fresh enjoyment of repose"
I totally understand what Elliot is saying. It is what I think I will miss the most when I no longer have Serena here with me. That special look we share that says so much in an instant and just for those brief moments we hold each others gaze everything is good. No matter what the realities of our situation, just then while we look into each others souls, there is perfect peace, the fresh enjoyment of repose. It is also what I fear the most. One day I will look into those eyes and they will be empty. Not even a sign of recongition let alone the understanding, admiration, affirmation, love that I see in them during those brief moments. That scares me. I dread it above all else. I hate ALS.
Just venting. I know you'll understand
George Elliot wrote, "That quiet mutual gaze of a trusting husband and wife is like the first moment of rest or refuge from a great weariness or a great danger--not to be interfered with by speech or action which would distract the sensations from the fresh enjoyment of repose"
I totally understand what Elliot is saying. It is what I think I will miss the most when I no longer have Serena here with me. That special look we share that says so much in an instant and just for those brief moments we hold each others gaze everything is good. No matter what the realities of our situation, just then while we look into each others souls, there is perfect peace, the fresh enjoyment of repose. It is also what I fear the most. One day I will look into those eyes and they will be empty. Not even a sign of recongition let alone the understanding, admiration, affirmation, love that I see in them during those brief moments. That scares me. I dread it above all else. I hate ALS.
Just venting. I know you'll understand
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