Monky
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- Feb 26, 2010
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- Utrecht
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- Utrecht
Hi Everybody,
I will first tell you about our situation first.
I am Monique and I live in Holland. My dad and brother live in the US and my dad has ALS. At this point he can hardly talk, can't stand, can hardly use his arms and hands, and this all happend within a year. He is going down faster than we can adjust to and living in Holland doesn't make it easier for us.
I have a brother who lives near my father and my sister lives with me and my Mother in Holland. We try to come as often as possible and we see he stablizes with each of our visits. You can understand that it is very frustrating to live so far away and not being able to be there.
I'm in the US now for 2 weeks and I arrives last Sunday. Yesterday we went to the ALS Clinic in Burlington Mass.
with the PT and Neurologist and everybody we could think of, we talked about the new problem of the neck. My dad can't hold his head up anymore. It bobs to the side and forward. This started a week ago.
Now the PT said the Headmaster was the only thing that would work for him and she showed it on him... I have no idea how she could even suggest that, since his head kept falling to the side. It's also giving him pain... that strain in the neck. It is also not helpfull to use his speach computer. He has trouble talking and this headmaster is supposed to keep his head straight and it doesn't so he can't use the speach computer. The PT also said that a bigger brace would be more uncomfortable and would ristrict his breathing. They say that is more important than comfort.... I'm not sure I agree since comfort dictates the quality of the life he still has.
This whole thing is really making him depressed.
Now... I would really like to hear from any of you if you have had a similar problem and how you dealt with it. I really hope I can help him in the few weeks that I am here with him. My next visit would be in December... He thinks he may not be there anymore... before Christmas...
Groetjes,
Monique
I will first tell you about our situation first.
I am Monique and I live in Holland. My dad and brother live in the US and my dad has ALS. At this point he can hardly talk, can't stand, can hardly use his arms and hands, and this all happend within a year. He is going down faster than we can adjust to and living in Holland doesn't make it easier for us.
I have a brother who lives near my father and my sister lives with me and my Mother in Holland. We try to come as often as possible and we see he stablizes with each of our visits. You can understand that it is very frustrating to live so far away and not being able to be there.
I'm in the US now for 2 weeks and I arrives last Sunday. Yesterday we went to the ALS Clinic in Burlington Mass.
with the PT and Neurologist and everybody we could think of, we talked about the new problem of the neck. My dad can't hold his head up anymore. It bobs to the side and forward. This started a week ago.
Now the PT said the Headmaster was the only thing that would work for him and she showed it on him... I have no idea how she could even suggest that, since his head kept falling to the side. It's also giving him pain... that strain in the neck. It is also not helpfull to use his speach computer. He has trouble talking and this headmaster is supposed to keep his head straight and it doesn't so he can't use the speach computer. The PT also said that a bigger brace would be more uncomfortable and would ristrict his breathing. They say that is more important than comfort.... I'm not sure I agree since comfort dictates the quality of the life he still has.
This whole thing is really making him depressed.
Now... I would really like to hear from any of you if you have had a similar problem and how you dealt with it. I really hope I can help him in the few weeks that I am here with him. My next visit would be in December... He thinks he may not be there anymore... before Christmas...
Groetjes,
Monique