myheart2yours
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- Aug 22, 2009
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- CALS
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- US
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- CA
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- Corona
Hi it's been a while since I have posted here but I guess up until now things have been the same. I am caegiver to my mother who has ALS and since diagnosed over a year ago my father has retired and for help they have moved in with me and my family
So everything was still goin the same until now...aa few months ago her vc was below 40 percent. We have not since got another reading. She chose not to vent or use feeding tubes. She is completely confined to a power chair. Can still talk with a slur but barely audible. (altho we can understand her no one else can) She eats soft foods still. But this past week she has been having a way harder time supporting her neck. She cries in pain and we have to put a neck brace on her. She also has a bad pain in the right side chest that she says shoots right through her back? And she chokes 10x worse than usual. She has asthma and it seems we give her spray more than we ever have. Today she informed us that she feels weak and like her body seems to be giving out whatever is left of her. She thinks her "time" is drawing to an end. her suggestion is that we contact hispice to monitor her and give her morphine for her pain. What do we do? Obviously she is weaker possibly dying I dont know. If you have been through these stages please message me. We dont know what to do at this point. I know she is tired but do we confine her to her bed until she dies? Im sad and confused, I have always thought to be prepared for this but I feel a bit overwhelmed. I cannot imagine how she must feel, although i wouldnt know it cause she is a tough cookie Please any help is appreciated...:?
So everything was still goin the same until now...aa few months ago her vc was below 40 percent. We have not since got another reading. She chose not to vent or use feeding tubes. She is completely confined to a power chair. Can still talk with a slur but barely audible. (altho we can understand her no one else can) She eats soft foods still. But this past week she has been having a way harder time supporting her neck. She cries in pain and we have to put a neck brace on her. She also has a bad pain in the right side chest that she says shoots right through her back? And she chokes 10x worse than usual. She has asthma and it seems we give her spray more than we ever have. Today she informed us that she feels weak and like her body seems to be giving out whatever is left of her. She thinks her "time" is drawing to an end. her suggestion is that we contact hispice to monitor her and give her morphine for her pain. What do we do? Obviously she is weaker possibly dying I dont know. If you have been through these stages please message me. We dont know what to do at this point. I know she is tired but do we confine her to her bed until she dies? Im sad and confused, I have always thought to be prepared for this but I feel a bit overwhelmed. I cannot imagine how she must feel, although i wouldnt know it cause she is a tough cookie Please any help is appreciated...:?