Laurie Staller
Active member
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2010
- Messages
- 48
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 07/2009
- Country
- CA
- State
- ontario
- City
- kitchener
Hi...I've never been a member of a forum before, but I felt I needed to talk to someone other than a family member. My younger sister has been diagoised with ALS. My husband and I took her to the Mayo clinic last July, in hopes of finding a diagnoisis. She started with muscle weakness approx. 6 years ago and was wrongfully diagnoised with M.S. The M.S. doctor sent her for further testing in London, Ontario, but they never really came up with anything concrete, except to say that it was some kind of Neurological disease that would only progress. (They never really stated that it was ALS). That was when we took it upon ourselves to get my sister to the Mayo clinic in hopes of a cure or even just a firm diagnoisis. That diagnoisis was ALS. The progression up to this point has been slow...really affecting her lower limbs. She has a constant cough, contant heart burn and indigestion and now she is having shortness of breath. I feel that the disease is starting to progress faster. She has now had it, going on 7 years. I'm really trying to stay strong for her and her family, and have really tried to address each symptom as they arise, so that she can be as comfortable as possible. The drugs do help with some of the symptoms, but since she has been getting worse, the drugs aren't doing the job anymore. I find this the hardest.....I just have such a hard time watching and not being able to do anything when another awful symptom strikes!
She is in denial about this disease, and won't admit she has ALS. I don't know if she'll ever come to terms with this or not and that is the hardest part. I want to get her some help...books....forums whatever it takes to get her as much support as she needs. But, as long as she is in denial...my hands are tied. What I want to know, has anyone in this forum delt with the same kind of denial that my sister is going through...and will this change once she is in her final stages. I love her so much and want to help her as much as I can. Please help!
She is in denial about this disease, and won't admit she has ALS. I don't know if she'll ever come to terms with this or not and that is the hardest part. I want to get her some help...books....forums whatever it takes to get her as much support as she needs. But, as long as she is in denial...my hands are tied. What I want to know, has anyone in this forum delt with the same kind of denial that my sister is going through...and will this change once she is in her final stages. I love her so much and want to help her as much as I can. Please help!