Miss
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- Joined
- Apr 11, 2010
- Messages
- 1,782
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 04/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- In the Land of Cotton
- City
- Way Down South
I had such high hopes that this would be a good trip. We are up in Knoxville for our daughter's freshman orientation. My husband went to college here, and loves it. He has several friends who live in the area. Tonight, about 15 guys from college are heading into town to spend time with him. We are staying at a Residence Inn that is truly handicapped accessible. All should be perfect.
The first two hours of the car trip were hell - until my daughter and I convinced my husband that he would be more comfortable in the backseat of the Lincoln. He has complained about the hotel - not good enough - even though it is two bedrooms and a den with a walk in shower and everything he could possibly need. Complain, complain, complain. Is that just part of it now? I'm not going to pretend that I have taken the criticism and abuse lightly. I just don't understand it. Everyone is bending over backwards to make the trip wonderful.
Now all I am hearing is that I have failed him and that he just doesn't want to live anymore. Help! He is driving me crazy! I am trying to understand, but I'm having a very, very hard time with this.
The first two hours of the car trip were hell - until my daughter and I convinced my husband that he would be more comfortable in the backseat of the Lincoln. He has complained about the hotel - not good enough - even though it is two bedrooms and a den with a walk in shower and everything he could possibly need. Complain, complain, complain. Is that just part of it now? I'm not going to pretend that I have taken the criticism and abuse lightly. I just don't understand it. Everyone is bending over backwards to make the trip wonderful.
Now all I am hearing is that I have failed him and that he just doesn't want to live anymore. Help! He is driving me crazy! I am trying to understand, but I'm having a very, very hard time with this.