sanderson
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- Joined
- Feb 25, 2009
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- Loved one DX
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- ca
- State
- new brunswick
- City
- sussex
My practical mind is struggling with my emotional mind. We accomopanied my dad yesterday to a follow up appointment at the ALS clinic he attends. The main purpose was to review the most recent breathing assessments and his swallowing assessment so he could make a decsion about a PEG, ( this had been discussed before at other appointments). There had been some changes with his swallowing and while he is not having noticeable trouble, he is coughing more aftre meals and there has been sig, changes in his voice and speech as well as general decline in his mobilty, using a wheelchair pretty much all the time. The swallowing assesment did show weakening in his swallowing muscles and he is silently aspirating small amounts of liquids. his breathing has also declined since the last test. All this to say that if was going to consider a feeding tube, now would be a good time as he doesnt require it just yet and his lung capacity would support the procedure, . This has been on my dads mind since our last appointment. Aftre hearing all the test resulst and the pros of a feeding tube and discussing his concerns, he decided against having one. He very clearly articulated his feelings and his reasoning. While he enjoys our visist and the time that we are able to spend with him, he is not enjoying his life. he is dependant for pretty much all aspects of his daily avtivities. he is ready for this to be done. It makes me very sad and yet I understand where he is coming from. My dad has always been one to make things work, to find a away to make things happen, and now he has stopped doing this. I am sorry this is so long, I am just so sad right now.