Miss
Very helpful member
- Joined
- Apr 11, 2010
- Messages
- 1,782
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 04/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- In the Land of Cotton
- City
- Way Down South
Does any one else have a PALS that blames you (the caregiver) for EVERYTHING. When I say everything, I mean literally almost everything. I've tried almost every approach - nice, ignore, tough, you name it - to turn this situation around. I know it is coming from the fear of the disease, the rapid decline, the financial uncertainty, the battles with the VA and BCBS, relinquishing control, etc. I get all of that. I don't know what I would do in his situation, but I also don't know what to do in mine. If it were just the two of us at home, that would be one thing, but I have two children at home. This cannot be good for tbhem. It makes them very angry when he "attacks" me. Generally, I blow it off if they are around, but it is getting harder and harder. Any suggestions?