ghii
Active member
- Joined
- Mar 23, 2010
- Messages
- 88
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 02/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- Texas
- City
- CC
Yesterday my husband went for prostate surgery. When it was arranged a month ago, he could still walk some distance. Ten days ago, he started declining. Yesterday he was so tired driving to the surgery, he was not even coherent. He refused to let me drive, today I take over all driving - which speak volumes. The nurses were very concerned. I could almost read their thoughts, "What are they doing operating on him when he is dying." He looked that way, as tired as he was. The surgery went very well. He has been sleeping since.
The nurse was so concerned, 45 minutes later, she was going off duty and I heading to the restroom, mind preoccupied when she stopped me and asked me if I know where I was going. She greeted me like an old friend. Somewhere during those minutes, we connected. I was very touched by her concern.
I noticed both nurses wincing when they saw Als and going very solemn.
I found a good way to cope, cry out all the tears that has to come out and then I can stay dried eyed the rest of the day. I was crying this morning, praying for God to take him before he suffers too much and saying at the time, - I don't want him to go.
I felt sad just now looking at him sleeping. And then I thought, he is at least not in pain. That is a comfort. He went downhill so fast, a friend who saw him last week could not believe her eyes. She gave me a big long hug and told me I needed it.
He has it for more than two years now. It seems when it finally catches up, it catches up very fast.
gertrude
The nurse was so concerned, 45 minutes later, she was going off duty and I heading to the restroom, mind preoccupied when she stopped me and asked me if I know where I was going. She greeted me like an old friend. Somewhere during those minutes, we connected. I was very touched by her concern.
I noticed both nurses wincing when they saw Als and going very solemn.
I found a good way to cope, cry out all the tears that has to come out and then I can stay dried eyed the rest of the day. I was crying this morning, praying for God to take him before he suffers too much and saying at the time, - I don't want him to go.
I felt sad just now looking at him sleeping. And then I thought, he is at least not in pain. That is a comfort. He went downhill so fast, a friend who saw him last week could not believe her eyes. She gave me a big long hug and told me I needed it.
He has it for more than two years now. It seems when it finally catches up, it catches up very fast.
gertrude