belladonna
Member
- Joined
- Feb 27, 2010
- Messages
- 15
- Reason
- CALS
- Country
- CA
- State
- Manaitoba
- City
- winnipeg
I'm a 28 year old girl that really didn't get along with my mom while growing up.
Over the past 2 years we have connected as I would fly home and help dig her out of her shop-aholic tendencies.
Everything changed in the last 6 months. I moved back home from the west cost, went from being a professional to a part time bartender. I have given up my career to look after her.
I choose this because she is sliding down hill so fast that she will not make it to a placement home.
Home care is useless. IF they show up, with out me there to give them directions they leave. This is a full time job and a extreamly hard one. Watching her deteriorate in front of my face is soul crushing but I never let her see that.
My family is useless when it comes to any sort of help so I am on my own in that department. If it wern't for friends I would lose my bananas
The other day after a brief visit from my younger sister, my mom was nasty to her and she left and wrote me and email asking if she would still get half of all my moms stuff.
For what? She is working and contributing to her morgage and not me or my mom. I am going nowhere and I an my mother who is of sound mind is the one that told me that she would like me to have the house.
I feel like I should be more generious but I just don't think that a kid who can call a woman with ALS Lazy for using a walker deserves more then love, prayers and good will
Over the past 2 years we have connected as I would fly home and help dig her out of her shop-aholic tendencies.
Everything changed in the last 6 months. I moved back home from the west cost, went from being a professional to a part time bartender. I have given up my career to look after her.
I choose this because she is sliding down hill so fast that she will not make it to a placement home.
Home care is useless. IF they show up, with out me there to give them directions they leave. This is a full time job and a extreamly hard one. Watching her deteriorate in front of my face is soul crushing but I never let her see that.
My family is useless when it comes to any sort of help so I am on my own in that department. If it wern't for friends I would lose my bananas
The other day after a brief visit from my younger sister, my mom was nasty to her and she left and wrote me and email asking if she would still get half of all my moms stuff.
For what? She is working and contributing to her morgage and not me or my mom. I am going nowhere and I an my mother who is of sound mind is the one that told me that she would like me to have the house.
I feel like I should be more generious but I just don't think that a kid who can call a woman with ALS Lazy for using a walker deserves more then love, prayers and good will