scubachick
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I found this forum a couple of days ago and thought I would say hello. I've been reading the posts and find them very helpful. You all seem very supportive of one another!
My husband was diagnosed 4/2009. He is 47 and I am 39. My step son is away at college and will graduate this spring. The ALS is only affecting his legs right now and he can still walk, although with much more difficulty than back in April. He has not been back to work or driven a car since the day he was diagnosed. He used to be a workaholic who was not at home very much, so that change in him has been pretty profound in addition to everything else that's happening.
I'm working on getting things modified in the house and gathering the various equipment he will need. All the folks at our local MDA chapter and ALS clinic have been absolutely fantastic in helping me with this, thank god!
Some days are ok, others are pretty dark. Seems like this is going to be quite an emotional roller coaster for both of us. He is very depressed, understandibly so (and yes he is on an antidepressant and anxiolytic). Right now he is angry with me because I want to hire someone to come in and help during the day when the time comes that he needs a higher level care. He's not wanting any part of that and wants his sister or me with him all the time (she lives in CO, we are in TX). He asked me to quit my job, and I don't want to, so of course I feel like I'm a horrible person. I remind myself every morning to find something positive during this day to focus on, but sometimes it's just very difficult.
Anyway, thanks for listening. It's comforting to know that we are not alone in this experience, although I do hate this disease and wish no one had to face it.
Heidi
My husband was diagnosed 4/2009. He is 47 and I am 39. My step son is away at college and will graduate this spring. The ALS is only affecting his legs right now and he can still walk, although with much more difficulty than back in April. He has not been back to work or driven a car since the day he was diagnosed. He used to be a workaholic who was not at home very much, so that change in him has been pretty profound in addition to everything else that's happening.
I'm working on getting things modified in the house and gathering the various equipment he will need. All the folks at our local MDA chapter and ALS clinic have been absolutely fantastic in helping me with this, thank god!
Some days are ok, others are pretty dark. Seems like this is going to be quite an emotional roller coaster for both of us. He is very depressed, understandibly so (and yes he is on an antidepressant and anxiolytic). Right now he is angry with me because I want to hire someone to come in and help during the day when the time comes that he needs a higher level care. He's not wanting any part of that and wants his sister or me with him all the time (she lives in CO, we are in TX). He asked me to quit my job, and I don't want to, so of course I feel like I'm a horrible person. I remind myself every morning to find something positive during this day to focus on, but sometimes it's just very difficult.
Anyway, thanks for listening. It's comforting to know that we are not alone in this experience, although I do hate this disease and wish no one had to face it.
Heidi