She doesn't have insurance. And we barely have any money coming in now. I am so scared we are going to lose this house. This house is all we have left. I am so angry at everything anymore. I just want to go out ONCE and smile and relax and I can't even do that. If I go anywhere, it's a quick errand and I have to take her with me...that in itself is a nightmare. I have to take the wheelchair(which I cannot lift) and wait for a man to help me get it out...then when we are done, wait for someone to stroll by to put it back. We have alot in common..yes, that is how I am feeling, like where is our help now? I mean, the phone NEVER rings...you'd think at least a neighbor would of came by on Christmas just for a hug...but nope, nothing. I'm so sorry I am so angry, forgive me please...but right now, I feel angry at the world...we need money help...and that's what makes me mad...we have brought in homeless people and turned their life around...we use to go and help homeless people every Christmas & Thanksgiving...I use to give people money all the time...I've bought cars for people...you name it, but no one is helping us...I just want this house loan modified, THAT is what would help...but they are such jerks and won't listen...they ask about a job and neither of us have one and tells us they won't modify...yet, in over 4 years of having this house, we have never missed a payment...also, my Moms medical bills are pilling up...the Als place said they had a lawyer, but I never heard anymore about it...I mean how can they expect her to pay when she has Als, a broken leg, no insurance, and out of work? Just thought the Als folks could help out...just thought, just for one day, someone from that place could call places to see how we can get in better shape...that would help...ever feel like you have called a hundred places and you only get the run around? Yeah. So anything from that place would help, even something that small....heard they have support groups and never heard anymore about that...I don't feel loved by them...I mean, I am very angry and I keep getting more and more angry the more people are ignore me...Just getting that stuff wiped clean would be a help(her med bills)...the financial mess is killing us both...the only money we have coming in is her social security and that is not enough...we can't lose this house...my grandmother gave us the money for it so we'd be ok....we can't sell because equity is gone...all we have left is this home...I feel like I am going to die. I have always been psychic and in touch with "the other side" and even before Mom got sick, I knew she was terminal...my dog who passed a couple years ago, same thing, even before symptoms and I KNOW that if we don't get help, I am going to die...no one can live with this much stress...I NEVER sleep anymore, like ever....we don't even have the money to buy her the vitamins and everything else so I can try to get her healthy...the phone only rings from so and so asking when we are going to send our payment in...try dealing with losing the only person you have in the world and then fear losing your home...and it's like people don;t care....sorry if I am going on and on about myself, but she's going to a better place and I am stuck "here"...I just need to find some way to where we can stabilize our home and such...we're in such bad shape, we had to get food from a church...THAT is how bad things are....I cry every night in such fear of being homeless, I am so scared...it's just too much stress at once...you are right, I do need to get out, but she's a fall risk...I can't and I don't have the money to go out anyway or anyone to go out with..I feel like I am in prison....feel so alone and so cold...I'd LOVE to go horseback riding, I love that, it's so free...but I can't leave her alone...how can I keep living like this? the only bright light in my life is late at night, I go into a state where I can leave my body(seriously)..I know it sounds nuts to many, but it really does happen..there's so much peace and love outside of this shell, words could never convey...I wonder though if my time is soon also...I've always known the future and I feel like I am going to go also...I can't lose her AND my home...my dream has been to have a house on land and turn it into an animal sanctuary(Mom's too) and I keep that close to my heart, but i fear that may never happen...ever since she became ill...our world has crumbled(we figured we'd hold on to this place long enough till it can sell then get our house on land)...I feel and see so many cold people who just turn a blind eye...it's crazy how people can be so cruel...I've noticed how EVERYONE I have ever known wants nothing to do with us...people are suppose to take care of one another...I loved your post...you made me feel love, really and thank you. I am glad I found this site. All I ask is one thing...to know how hurt and miserable I am...so if I ever sound pessimistic, for that, I am sorry...I loved your story, it was very beautiful...I hope my note made sense...I'm really tired...