ALSmom
Member
- Joined
- Apr 5, 2009
- Messages
- 17
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 11/2008
- Country
- US
- State
- MI
- City
- White Pine
My son was diagnosed nov 2008. Has lost use of arms, hands, legs and speech is very bad. He had his feeding tube put in this week. He is very upbeat but very concerned about his wife of 1 year. She has completely shut down. She comes home from work and goes to sleep. She is constantly sleepy. It's like this is her refuge. We are retired but live 10 hours away from them. We travel to see them as often as possible but it is evident that we are not really welcome by her. This week our daughter was at their house and the wife went back to bed at 10 AM and was still sleeping when she left at 2:30. We would welcome him with open arms to live with us but he wants to stay with her. That is fine with us but we worry sooooooo much that she is unstable and whether he is getting the care he needs. Doe anyone have any suggestions as to how to approach the subject with her or get her the help she obviously needs? They have a wonderful caregiver that comes in during the day. She takes care of our son, cleans the house, cooks the meals, does the laundry etc. So it's not physical help she needs. She was a friendly, outgoing girl until this all happened.