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jimercat
06-01-2007, 06:52 PM
My husband has had on his wish list and Airedale puppy. We called half a dozen breeders and they were either too expensive or already had the pups promised out.

Just got a call that a breeder in Alabama has a female pup available. Hooray!

Would like to know how others feel about pets for PALS and what kind of experience you've had positive or negative.

Having an Airedale (sweetest dogs on earth but ferociously protective) was on my husband's wish list and it would be a great Father's Day gift!

cj

Beebe
06-01-2007, 09:19 PM
Hi there, Who is "Man's Best Friend"?!?! I would go for it. They are sweet animals. We were at Pet Smart one day and they had about 6 grown Airdales there. It was an organization that saves the Airdales from being put to sleep after they aren't needed for racing. They aren't that old either. They were so sweet and we were told excellent pets. Good Luck and let us know how you do. My Best to you, Beebe

edna may
06-02-2007, 12:13 AM
My husband has had on his wish list and Airedale puppy. We called half a dozen breeders and they were either too expensive or already had the pups promised out.

Just got a call that a breeder in Alabama has a female pup available. Hooray!

Would like to know how others feel about pets for PALS and what kind of experience you've had positive or negative.

Having an Airedale (sweetest dogs on earth but ferociously protective) was on my husband's wish list and it would be a great Father's Day gift!

cj

I highly recommend a pet of any kind, but especially a dog, I have had pets all my life & would not be without one or two in he family. with that bundle of fur comes deep love & endless companion ship. However be sure some one in the family has the time & energy to house break & train the little guy, . What a lovely Fathers day Gift. All the best. EM

Al
06-02-2007, 01:19 PM
We have 2 border collies. Great companions but they have a hard time understanding that Grampa can't throw the ball for them anymore. We call them the granddogs. Daughter had them before kids. As long as the caregiver is willing to train an animal it is a great idea. Last time I fell Gage was licking me like crazy and Desoto was running around in circles yelping. There was no doubt something was wrong with me. Who needs Lifeline? LOL.
AL.

CindyM
06-02-2007, 04:03 PM
I don't regret for a minute getting Sam. He's big (English Mastiff) but gentle and on days when I am shaky he presses against the back of my knees as if helping to hold me up. Sometimes just getting up off the sofa takes a lot of effort but if it means spending time in the yard with Sam by my side it's worth it! Cindy

jimercat
06-02-2007, 07:40 PM
Thanks y'all!

We have a Collie now and she's 7. My husband has always loved terriers and the Airedale we had before was the best.

Hubby can still walk (don't know how much longer, but he is stubborn about canes, etc...), so he needs something to keep him occupied as he is no longer able to work and all the things he used to enjoy are becoming too exhausting. Hubby can still talk, but understanding him is becoming increasingly difficult- but I figure a dog hears and understands a "universal language." I'm hoping this will help his state of mind and create an opportunity for him and my son to do something together without him totally tiring out.

cj

liz
06-02-2007, 09:16 PM
Any PALS using a working dog? I've been wondering about that?

Liz

lunarruna
06-02-2007, 09:42 PM
My husband gets so much joy from our golden retriever, Runa. We had her before his illness started...now that he immobile and cant talk she went through a period of depression because I think it seemed he was ignoring her. It broke his heart when she started kind of disengaging from him. We really regret not recording his voice talking to her. She didnt get the synthesized voice on his first machine. But now that he got an ERICA system it has a more realistic voice and we have taught her some commands on it. Also, he has started 'giving her' treats...well, I put the treat under his hand and he calls her name on the ERICA and she comes running and takes the treat---they both love it! She cant take the treat until he tells her and will sit patiently waiting.
She is also really sensitive to crying (which goes on alot in our house!)--if someone starts crying on the TV she comes running to check it out!
Pets are so great!
Beth (CALS to husband Shannon, dxed 8/04 at age 40)

saska
06-03-2007, 11:16 AM
HOOORAY...a new puppy!!! Dogs are one of my greatest joys! They (pets in general) can also be very good for our health. A veterinarian, I think his name is Marty Becker, wrote a book "The Healing Power of Pets" with some astounding and wonderful true stories and very interesting factoids, like that petting a dog can lower blood pressure and stress hormones, for both the human and the petee (is 'petee' a word?). I think a Fathers Day puppy is a grand idea!!

Sharon

Paty
06-07-2007, 06:29 PM
Get your husband his airdale terrier, dog's are wonderful, I have three German Shepherds, Vince (the male) Nannette and Maya and I love them.

Paty
Husband's Caregiver Dx 10/17/05
Baja California, Mexico

P.D. SOMEONE TOLD ME ONE DAY, NOW THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS SICK AND YOU ARE HIS ONLY CAREGIVER, WHY NOT START THINKING OF GIVING YOUR DOGS ANOTHER HOME.
NO WAY I SAID THEY ARE PART OF MY FAMILY AND TWO OLD TO GIVE THEM AWAY.
VINCE IS 8 YRS. OLD AND NANETTE AND MAYA ARE 10 GOING ON 11, THE THREE OF THEM LOVE ME DEARLY AND SO DO I.

POSFirebird_86
06-12-2007, 12:10 AM
I say get ur hubby the puppy. My Father in Law was diagnosed in July 2003. He can no longer walk or move his arms adn is having a really hard time at talking. But when he calls for his Black lab Sally she comes running into his room and jumps on his bed. She will lay there all day nestled up to him and give him kisses.

jimercat
06-12-2007, 01:23 PM
Great responses everybody!

Had a little bump in the road and couldn't get the little Airedale. So she went to someone else. But we still plan on getting one. My 6 year old isn't gonna give up on nagging us about it either!!!

CJ

CindyM
06-12-2007, 04:38 PM
Hi CJ. Let us know when you get the new addition to your family! Cindy

Jane
06-12-2007, 05:28 PM
Hello Liz, I did know a gentleman who had a working dog. This dog was trained according the needs of his master. When they went out the dog wore a "service Dog" vest. We hold our support group meetings in the community room of a local grocery store and had no problem getting this great dog in.

Unfortunately, I can not tell you exac tly what this dog did ,but I do know it was a great help to owner, not just for the work he was able to do but for the unconditional love and devotion the dog gave every day.
Take Care
Jane

CindyM
06-12-2007, 09:50 PM
Hi Liz. When we first got Sam my Docs were preparing me for the worst so I did an online search on "service Dogs" and found some sites for organizations who train dogs and also a few personal sites for folks who use service dogs. It seemed like a good idea if the CAL or CALS were willing to take on extra duties of pet-plus PAl care. Plus on another thread we discussed helper monkeys to fetch, carry, and open things. Cindy

Teej
06-14-2007, 05:09 AM
We were given a black lab about three months ago and he is now four months old. While it was a load of work when we first brought him home, he has forged a bond with my husband that is truly touching. My husband's bed is the only piece of furniture he is allowed on, and he joyfully spends time up there every time we will let him. The smile on my husband's face when that silly puppy is in his bed is priceless. We are having him service trained, so I will let you know how that goes! GO FOR IT! As hard as it is to train a pup and take care of your PAL, it is worth every ounce of effort! God Bless!! Teej

CindyM
06-14-2007, 06:46 PM
Thanks Teej. I am sure a lot of us will be interested in how the service training goes fro you new puppy. He sounds so cute! Cindy

janf
06-14-2007, 11:53 PM
Hi CJ , we just lost our sheepdog of 10 yrs so what did we do we just bought another old english sheepdog . the first week i thought (what have we done ). i'm in a wheelchair i must be insane. I also have a yorkie. I got our new pup on schedule and we are doing great .i am a pals and babies and puppie s are just what the doctor ordered. we adore him. my husband is smitten. go to www.petfind.com hope you find your airadale. jan

jimercat
06-15-2007, 04:41 PM
Thanks Jan. Love Old English Sheep Dogs!

I believe the Collie we have now knew there was something wrong with my husband way before we did. She started freaking everytime he would leave the house, and I mean just if he were to go out in the yard. She now follows him around constantly and keeps her eye on him. She barks incessantly when he leaves in a vehicle. If we are gone for the weekend and have a friend take care of her, she will sit in the corner of our kitchen and will not budge to eat or potty. They have to push her out the door. We won't be leaving her anymore, it seems too traumatic for her.

I'll look at that site you posted for an Airedale. Thanks for the info!

CJ

eyeoftheestorm
06-20-2007, 06:11 PM
Hi - I am very new to this ,but wanted to give you feed back . My mother has passed away due to ALS . she lived with me for her final 13 months of her life . I live on a farm and at the time she was here , I had 8 full grown dogs & 8 puppies. She had never lived on a farm ,nor did she ever have a dog ! So while Iwas taking care of her , I was also taking care of a mother dog , father & 8 puppys , all living in the house ! My mother grew to love each & every one of them & even picked one that lay on her bed all day & slept with her at night . She ended up nameing a puppy after herself , she gave her the name "Sissy' my mother left this world with a very special love for something that got her through the very long days & endless nights ,a love that she had never knew she had .I miss my mother very very much & still today have 6dogs & 2 birds .and i love them very very much for giving my mom the strength to live another day . I am so sure that youboth will grow to love that puppy - he will make each new day just a little bit easier & he will give you the strength to bear another day !! GOD bless you & your new family member ! Give love and you will get endless love & devotion in return !! GOD bless you !
love , eyeoftheestorm

edna may
06-20-2007, 10:12 PM
Hello Liz, I did know a gentleman who had a working dog. This dog was trained according the needs of his master. When they went out the dog wore a "service Dog" vest. We hold our support group meetings in the community room of a local grocery store and had no problem getting this great dog in.
Unfortunately, I can not tell you exac tly what this dog did ,but I do know it was a great help to owner, not just for the work he was able to do
Jane


I have had several dogs thru my life time & they all lived to a ripe old age the dog " Sandy " I have now is a Lab mix she came from the shelter & is going on 13yrs. When I was first Dx, she sensed the sadness in the Family, & went on a hunger strike It took a great deal of coaxing & hugs to bring her out of it & at the same tine distracted us from our worries . There is no substitutes for the love of a dog.

jimercat
06-20-2007, 10:22 PM
eyeoftheestorm-

I used to live in Nebr.

Sorry your Mom passed away due to this disease. Animals are like angels I think, Looking after us in their own way.

I'm surprised at the response to this thread, but then again it shows what love can do for us.

janf
06-21-2007, 12:46 AM
Oh and I have to add, I cannot see a sheepdog without smiling, they just make me smile, my good friend had one named Authur, he had a bow in his hair so he could see, they are just the funniest dogs, so sweet, and good natured, so glad you got another pup, I bet he is so cute. Annmarie


Thanks Ann Marie thats why we named him Happy. I think my husband has been given a gift to help him go through this unhappy disease with me. I read the other day that DOG is GOD spelled backwards. I know now that God truly cares about our animals. janf




    
   
   
   
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