Thank you all so much for your replies. I will pass them along to my mother. Dad is doing better on the Augmentin but is up a lot in the night ( says he has to go to the bathroom but then can't *go ) and sleeps upright in a chair during the day. I have suggested to Mom that Dad may need Bi Pap and a cough assist but she is so stressed and overwhelmed right now that just the thought of having to get/do "one more thing" got her upset with me for mentioning these things. It is so hard, knowing the stress she has to be feeling, but also understanding that dad would benefit from these devices. He is sleepy during the day, up frequently at night, and seemed really "out of it" when I visited. I feel so bad for Mom. I don't want her to get sick from being overwhelmed and yet, when I suggest things that might help Dad ( and therefore *her ) it just upsets her more. I don't know what to do. Dad's
ALS doctor does not yet know the current status of things but I think an appointment is coming up soon.
Debbie