Recess3
New member
- Joined
- Apr 5, 2013
- Messages
- 5
- Reason
- CALS
- Diagnosis
- 08/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- GA
- City
- Fayetteville
I know I’m not alone in wondering the big question that everyone has: how long does my loved one have left in his battle with ALS? I left my teaching position in January to care for my husband in our home, and am now facing an issue in regards to if I can be back in the classroom for the 2013 - 2014 school year. Everyone I ask shrugs their shoulders when I ask for advice, saying no one knows. I know that’s true, but I need to let my administration know soon, so please help if you’ve been down this road and can give me some advice!
My husband was diagnosed first of all with frontotemperal dementia in October of 2010, followed by ALS in August 2011. He just turned 60 years old. Currently he is on a BiPAP night and day. His last breathing test showed he was at 19% in January, but with the dementia the test might not be accurate. I feed him pureed food and thickened beverages, and has lost the use of his speech, legs, and arms, and is in hospice care. Sometimes he does choke while eating. Other things seem to come and go. He drooled heavily, but only for one day. Hospice has him on a morphine patch and he takes Adavin at night to help with sleep. I do keep him in bed most of the time, because he’s also incontinent and moving him in and out of the wheelchair for diaper changes was hard on him. We’re not planning on getting a feeding tube or ventilator (his earlier decisions).
School starts August 1, so anyone up to a little friendly advice? I have four months left. I am grateful he’s such an easy patient. He keeps a sweet spirit and I’m not looking forward to losing him. I just need to give my administration fair warning. Thanks so much!
My husband was diagnosed first of all with frontotemperal dementia in October of 2010, followed by ALS in August 2011. He just turned 60 years old. Currently he is on a BiPAP night and day. His last breathing test showed he was at 19% in January, but with the dementia the test might not be accurate. I feed him pureed food and thickened beverages, and has lost the use of his speech, legs, and arms, and is in hospice care. Sometimes he does choke while eating. Other things seem to come and go. He drooled heavily, but only for one day. Hospice has him on a morphine patch and he takes Adavin at night to help with sleep. I do keep him in bed most of the time, because he’s also incontinent and moving him in and out of the wheelchair for diaper changes was hard on him. We’re not planning on getting a feeding tube or ventilator (his earlier decisions).
School starts August 1, so anyone up to a little friendly advice? I have four months left. I am grateful he’s such an easy patient. He keeps a sweet spirit and I’m not looking forward to losing him. I just need to give my administration fair warning. Thanks so much!