I'm so sorry, Cubcake. As if the physical symptoms of the illness aren't bad enough, having this other stuff to deal with seems just ridiculously unfair. Wish I had some good advice for you. I just try to keep the behavior in perspective - it's part of the disease. I can see it's much harder on Mom than me. {{{hugs}}}
Actually, he is a vet Notme, and I appreciate the VA assistance so very much. Unfortunately, there's just other stuff going on.