cubcake
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Jul 18, 2011
- Messages
- 271
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 10/2011
- Country
- US
- State
- Ca
- City
- San Ramon
I've been dreading this day for so long......Fred's work is finally not up to snuff, and someone has said something. It's time for us to pursue disability. He is heartbroken by this. I think that he still feels that he is going to get better, that his speech will return and all this will just be a very bad memory in our happily ever after.
Because of his alimony payments, I will have to continue to work full time, and he's still very much in the deep throws of his Velcro Syndrome. I'm not sure how to handle this.
To add insult to injury, I feel totally paralysed with regards to making any decisions, something that I'd never really felt before. Like I can't think straight! I just want to be able to provide the comfort that he can't provide for himself any longer.
I'm afraid I'm not handling this very well for him.
Because of his alimony payments, I will have to continue to work full time, and he's still very much in the deep throws of his Velcro Syndrome. I'm not sure how to handle this.
To add insult to injury, I feel totally paralysed with regards to making any decisions, something that I'd never really felt before. Like I can't think straight! I just want to be able to provide the comfort that he can't provide for himself any longer.
I'm afraid I'm not handling this very well for him.