May I ask, where are you going with this? I ask because I have suspected that Tom is also experiencing FTD, but not knowing where this will be leading, and knowing his reaction to depression I can just see what he would have to say if I were to start asking the doctors about FTD.
So far, he is just disagreeable, not much change there, but more critical, jealous, controlling, threatening, also with emotional liability in things like funerals, retirements, touching stories on the tv (too easy to tears when there have never ever been tears before. I have asked myself, so what? Does this need to be addressed? Then I ask myself, what if it gets worse, harder on us, or more obvious to the public?
What it boils down to for me is how much can my family handle, and what are our liabilities for his behavior? I feel callous, but too tired for much else.
Do you have the same concerns as me? Or do you think there is something out there that can help? Love to be in the know too if that is the case.