Phil's wife
Distinguished member
- Joined
- Apr 19, 2010
- Messages
- 141
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 05/2010
- Country
- US
- State
- NC
- City
- Wake Forest
Sometimes my husband gets an idea in his head and will not take no for an answer. So far, I have been able to smooth talk him out of it or fold and take him where he wants to go. The problem with folding is several times now I have missed activities or commitments with our kids in order to cater to his whims.
I do give him ativan when he needs it but most of the time if there is something he wants to do the medication only delays the persistence.
Example - Tonight my son had baseball practice. I wanted to stay when I took him to watch. My husband was watching TV and said he wanted to stay home. I knew he wanted to go to Home Depot (just outside our neighborhood) to get something for a piece of yard equipment that he can't use. After I left my daughter who was getting ready to leave called me to say dad was leaving after she did to ride his wheelchair to Home Depot alone. I immediately headed home and picked him up and took him to Home Depot and then back to ball field, missing most of practice.
We rarely leave him home alone for obvious reasons. He was so enthralled with TV and had been so restful today I thought he would be okay for a little bit tonight.
How do I prevent his whims from changing everyone's schedule - and/or endangering himself? I am sure this will just get worst as the FTD progresses.
Stephanie
I do give him ativan when he needs it but most of the time if there is something he wants to do the medication only delays the persistence.
Example - Tonight my son had baseball practice. I wanted to stay when I took him to watch. My husband was watching TV and said he wanted to stay home. I knew he wanted to go to Home Depot (just outside our neighborhood) to get something for a piece of yard equipment that he can't use. After I left my daughter who was getting ready to leave called me to say dad was leaving after she did to ride his wheelchair to Home Depot alone. I immediately headed home and picked him up and took him to Home Depot and then back to ball field, missing most of practice.
We rarely leave him home alone for obvious reasons. He was so enthralled with TV and had been so restful today I thought he would be okay for a little bit tonight.
How do I prevent his whims from changing everyone's schedule - and/or endangering himself? I am sure this will just get worst as the FTD progresses.
Stephanie