Sandra-
Ive had a little of the breathing issue during the day, but I'm attributing it to my pregnancy. Ive just read that respiratory problems start with symptoms like morning headaches (which Ive also been getting but I'm still trying to convince myself its from the pregnancy). I don't really wear heals either so I can't really answer that questions. The incontinence can be common with women who have given birth. I used to be a personal trainer and had a lot of clients that experienced that. Also, my aunt has that problem and it is because of her MS. I hope your problems go away soon.