Momma,
Welcome to are corner of the world. I am in aggreement with my friend's here, you are one of the friends that everyone needs. I think the advice to take on some things for your friend like picking up the kid's, dropping them off. Making dinners , helping with cleaning. I think that maybe if you got togetrher some of your friends and took different things to help with. MDA and ALSA will help with equipment, and such. We hpe we can provice help, to help you with your friend. I hate when this darn stuff hit's young parent's. My son is 14 and that is young enough. But under 5, oh my gosh, so sad. Thank you for caring so much.