a big hello to both of you.
that is my thread and i can understand what you are going through.
my incontinance is caused by years of spasms and weakness.(pls 10yrs)
i get bladder spasms and on either side of the groin,my pelvic/hip girdle area is very weak.
to update on that thread,i was told meds or an opp procedure you can have is no good for me now.
meds may help in the early stages,they wont do the opp procedure as it wont work with it being caused by a progressive desease.
so,now i have to use incontinance pads. just small ones not the big nappies yet thank god,at 41yrs old it does not do anything for your confidence but i am at home 90% of the time.
drvcolombo....................it is great you are here to help your mum.
we are happy to help you with anything you need to know.
good to have you both here