cocacolafun
Member
- Joined
- Jul 7, 2012
- Messages
- 13
- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Country
- CA
- State
- Ontario
- City
- Ottawa
I feel for my mother in law.
She is still in good shape ... even if she has already lost some ...
On one hand they tell her ...
-don't worry for your blood pressure anymore
-don't worry for your cholesterol anymore
-Enjoy life right now
On another hand they say ...
-Do less, it is better for you
-Don't eat nuts
-Laughing can be bad for you
-Take medication for a few more months
-But with the medication, stop cafeines, stop chocolate.
AND
-Record your voice on an ipad so when you can't talk you can press the button ...
-Learn the eye-blinking language so when you can't press the button anymore ...
-Let's do the Tracheotomy now while you are still strong ..
Can we just let her live! The worst days she has is when medical comes to her place to do excersise ... many times a week .. all kind of specialists.
-How to speak
-How to breath
-How to take her time
-How to adapt the house
-Decissions she need to take now
Come on ... she looks so sad and tired after their visits ...
-But the days we were there, we kept talking about our trips, the kids, schools, our life, other people's, etc. She laugh and had full energy.
She is still in good shape ... even if she has already lost some ...
On one hand they tell her ...
-don't worry for your blood pressure anymore
-don't worry for your cholesterol anymore
-Enjoy life right now
On another hand they say ...
-Do less, it is better for you
-Don't eat nuts
-Laughing can be bad for you
-Take medication for a few more months
-But with the medication, stop cafeines, stop chocolate.
AND
-Record your voice on an ipad so when you can't talk you can press the button ...
-Learn the eye-blinking language so when you can't press the button anymore ...
-Let's do the Tracheotomy now while you are still strong ..
Can we just let her live! The worst days she has is when medical comes to her place to do excersise ... many times a week .. all kind of specialists.
-How to speak
-How to breath
-How to take her time
-How to adapt the house
-Decissions she need to take now
Come on ... she looks so sad and tired after their visits ...
-But the days we were there, we kept talking about our trips, the kids, schools, our life, other people's, etc. She laugh and had full energy.