Helen, loads of sympathy! We have DD here--and yes, it was rare but I went for the donuts! 8:00 Colombian is my favorite coffee. Hope your day becomes more pleasant!
There is a 2 handled clear plastic mug, comes in a three pack--can prolong drinking coffee with bad hands. I use a tall plastic glass held with two hands, and used with a straw now. It works in bed while I sit up, as it rests on all my stuff (rolled up covers and bed controller under the glass).
Welcome, Mary! Hello to all!